Stress. Childbirth. Surgery. Goal-oriented sex.
All of it can leave sexual responsiveness… quieter.
You might think: “Maybe this is just how it is now.”
It’s not.
In as little as 5 minutes/day you can…
…restore natural lubrication and pelvic vitality
…rebuild nerve pathways for stronger orgasms
…revive blood flow for a more responsive vulva and vagina
…release old sexual narratives and reclaiming confidence
Numb to Nectar is inspired by busy women who want to make sexual satisfaction & intimacy anything but boring, clinical or sterile.
This is for women who:
• feel disconnected from their pelvis, vulva + vagina - and are ready to feel again
• are done circling their trauma in conversation and ready to move it through the body
• have outgrown surface-level healing and plateaued pelvic floor work
• crave a deeper, more intelligent approach to sensation, not just symptom management
• want a private, embodied pathway back to pleasure, aliveness, and sexual response
Please be aware that this challenge is hands-on, hands-in and shows step-by-step how to touch your pelvis + vulva and vagina with precision, safety and love. We do not use tools or pelvic wands.
You’ll Experience…
Letting go of the tight, controlled way you’ve been trying to “get there”, and feeling what happens when your body actually opens
A noticeable increase in sensitivity, where touch starts to feel deeper, warmer, and harder to ignore
Shifting from “performing pleasure” to being taken by it
A pelvis that stops bracing, and starts responding
Desire that builds on its own, not something you have to force, fake, or chase
Your 21-Day Journey…
5–10 min daily micro-touch practices that rewire how your body receives pleasure
Guided self-touch sessions to release tension, numbness, and reconnect to sensation
Foundational anatomy + real-talk education so you finally understand what your body needs
Optional full-length practices for when you want to drop deeper and stay there
Live Q&A support to get answers, coaching, and feel held in the process
Feeling your body wake up day by day, more sensation, less forcing
Coming Soon…
Guided pelvic floor, core + hip work so your body can actually move with pleasure, not resist it
More comfort, control, and sensation in any sexual positions that used to feel limiting
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JENNIFER - Founding Member
“Ava’s guidance and focus grounds me into the moment so that I can fully receive. Thank you for holding this type of space for women. This is truly so healing.”
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HEIDI - Founding Member
“It was way different than I thought it would be, in a BEST way. I am so pleased at how informative and educational this experience has been, so greatly appreciated.”
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KATIE - Founding Member
“I’ve never felt such an overwhelming feeling of love for myself. I am now creating more time and space for pleasure daily.”
Saying yes to Numb to Nectar as a founding member means you don’t do this alone - and you don’t stop after 21 days.
You’ll be part of a private circle of women committed to restoring sensation, trust, and connection in their bodies.
As a founding member, you receive:
• First Access to the Numb to Nectar Portal at the current low pricing
• Lifetime access to the Numb to Nectar portal & live Q&A calls to keep your practice ongoing
• Surprise releases of new classes, guided experiences, and hands-on teachings
• Priority access to future workshops, retreats, and in-person experiences
Please read: You must create an account to go to the checkout page & have access to the challenge.
It’s not your schedule.
And it’s not “low libido.”
What’s actually killing your desire is older, deeper, and far less innocent.
You inherited it.
A lineage of women taught, directly and indirectly; that worth comes from being useful, not turned on.
From staying agreeable instead of sensation-led.
From managing everyone else’s comfort instead of listening to your own body.
So your nervous system learned the job:
perform, produce, don’t disrupt.
Slow desire?
Messy wanting?
Deep sensation?
Never made the cut.
When arousal finally shows up, shame follows right behind it.
Not because you’re broken,
but because your body was never allowed to want without consequences.
Meanwhile, entire pleasure pathways remain offline.
Not damaged.
Just unused.
Numb to Nectar is not a self-care ritual.
It’s a demolition project.
Dismantling the structures that trained you out of sensation,
the ones your therapist avoids
and your partner doesn’t have words for yet.
Nice to meet you
I’m Ava
My clients call me a miracle maker - and they mean results.
I’m a Holistic Sexologist and Transformational Therapist trained to work with the stories your body still carries, not just the symptoms. My work is rooted in authentic Tantra - not performance, not pornified “feminine embodiment,” and not sterile clinical protocols.
Women find me when they want shame-free, power-drenched pleasure without fixing, chasing, or apologizing.
I serve burnout mothers, over-giving wives, and high-functioning women who have tried the books, the therapy, and the healing work… and still feel something essential is missing.
What they’re craving is liberation that lives in the body, the kind that says: you were never broken, only unclaimed.
This work is my life’s devotion.
Born from lived experience with depression, PMDD, anxiety, and sexual trauma, and refined through over a decade of embodied practice in holistic sexology, trauma alchemy, and transformational therapy.
My clients come to me when nothing else works.
They leave with more than breakthroughs.
They leave free.
If you’re ready to meet the woman beneath the numbness…
to feel real pleasure, real power, real presence with your body + pelvis + vulva/vagina…
Then you’re in the right place.
Been there, done that.
You don’t just want less pain or numbness…you want more life.
More connection. More sensation. More magnetism. More capacity to hold and be held.
You’ve done:
✔ The mindset work
✔ The pelvic floor sessions
✔ The couple’s therapy
✔ The feminine embodiment workshops
Now, you want to feel your power land in your body.
You want to experience it without sterility or an overemphasis on sexiness. I get it, because I’ve lived in both worlds.
Join us.
Please read: You must create an account to go to the checkout page & have access to the challenge.