Stress. Childbirth. Surgery. Goal-oriented sex.
All of it can leave sexual responsiveness… quieter.
You might think: “Maybe this is just how it is now.”
It’s not.
In as little as 5 minutes/day you can…
…restore natural lubrication and pelvic vitality
…rebuild nerve pathways for stronger orgasms
…revive blood flow for a more responsive vulva and vagina
…release old sexual narratives and reclaiming confidence
Numb to Nectar is inspired by busy women who want to make sexual satisfaction & intimacy anything but boring, clinical or sterile.
This is for women who:
• feel disconnected from their lower body
• are tired of talking about their trauma instead of feeling their way out of it
• don’t want to be touched by a stranger or coached into moaning
• want a private, intelligent, embodied path back to sensation
Please be aware that this challenge is hands-on, hands-in and shows step-by-step how to touch your pelvis + vulva and vagina with precision, safety and love. We do not use tools or pelvic wands.
You’ll Learn…
Grounded anatomy that’s anything but clinical - think intimate, real-talk education with Q&A.
Pelvic breathwork to increase blood flow + connect with your pelvic diaphragm.
Guided self-touch (in the comfort of your own home) to release shame, dissolve pain or numbness, and reawaken sensitivity.
Pelvic Movement to awaken your sexual energy, libido, and lifeforce
Your 21-Day Journey Includes…
Lifetime Access: Yes, you have this it your fingertips - forever!
Foundational Videos: Includes sexual anatomy & guided step-by-step practice.
Daily Devotion: Daily micro-touch practices short enough to fit between emails, potent enough to create real impact.
Live Q&A Sessions: Optional60-minute Q&A to meet the community and get coaching from me.
BONUS Material: Sexual education videos, workshops, and full-length sexual healing practice sessions you can revisit anytime.
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JENNIFER - Founding Member
“Ava’s guidance and focus grounds me into the moment so that I can fully receive. Thank you for holding this type of space for women. This is truly so healing.”
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HEIDI - Founding Member
“It was way different than I thought it would be, in a BEST way. I am so pleased at how informative and educational this experience has been, so greatly appreciated.”
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KATIE - Founding Member
“I’ve never felt such an overwhelming feeling of love for myself. I am now creating more time and space for pleasure daily.”
Saying yes to Numb to Nectar as a founding member means you don’t do this alone - and you don’t stop after 21 days.
You’ll be part of a private circle of women committed to restoring sensation, trust, and connection in their bodies.
As a founding member, you receive:
• Access to our ongoing community + live group calls
• Lifetime access to the Numb to Nectar portal
• Surprise releases of new classes, meditations, and hands-on teachings
• Priority access to future workshops, retreats, and in-person experiences
It’s not your schedule.
And it’s not “low libido.”
What’s actually killing your desire is older, deeper, and far less innocent.
You inherited it.
A lineage of women taught, directly and indirectly; that worth comes from being useful, not turned on.
From staying agreeable instead of sensation-led.
From managing everyone else’s comfort instead of listening to your own body.
So your nervous system learned the job:
perform, produce, don’t disrupt.
Slow desire?
Messy wanting?
Deep sensation?
Never made the cut.
When arousal finally shows up, shame follows right behind it.
Not because you’re broken,
but because your body was never allowed to want without consequences.
Meanwhile, entire pleasure pathways remain offline.
Not damaged.
Just unused.
Numb to Nectar is not a self-care ritual.
It’s a demolition project.
Dismantling the structures that trained you out of sensation,
the ones your therapist avoids
and your partner doesn’t have words for yet.
Nice to meet you
I’m Ava
My clients call me a miracle maker - and they mean results.
I’m a Holistic Sexologist and Transformational Therapist trained to work with the stories your body still carries, not just the symptoms. My work is rooted in authentic Tantra - not performance, not pornified “feminine embodiment,” and not sterile clinical protocols.
Women find me when they want shame-free, power-drenched pleasure without fixing, chasing, or apologizing.
I serve burnout mothers, over-giving wives, and high-functioning women who have tried the books, the therapy, and the healing work… and still feel something essential is missing.
What they’re craving is liberation that lives in the body —
the kind that says: you were never broken, only unclaimed.
This work is my life’s devotion.
Born from lived experience with depression, PMDD, anxiety, and sexual trauma, and refined through over a decade of embodied practice in holistic sexology, trauma alchemy, and transformational therapy.
My clients come to me when nothing else works.
They leave with more than breakthroughs.
They leave free.
If you’re ready to meet the woman beneath the numbness…
to feel real pleasure, real power, real presence with your body + pelvis + vulva/vagina…
Then you’re in the right place.
Been there, done that.
You don’t just want less pain or numbness…you want more life.
More connection. More sensation. More magnetism. More capacity to hold and be held.
You’ve done:
✔ The mindset work
✔ The pelvic floor sessions
✔ The couple’s therapy
✔ The feminine embodiment workshops
Now, you want to feel your power land in your body.
You want to experience it without sterility or an overemphasis on sexiness. I get it, because I’ve lived in both worlds.