Welcome, I’m Ava - The Tantric Sexologist

Somewhere between the bright lights of the stage and the deep stillness of meditation, a truth emerged, intimacy is not a performance. It’s a reclamation.

My journey into the world of sexology and intimacy work didn’t begin in a clinical office. It began in movement, in embodiment, in raw human connection. As a former erotic dancer, I witnessed firsthand what most people never say out loud, desire isn’t just about sex. It’s about being seen, feeling worthy, and coming home to the body. Men didn’t just crave touch; they craved presence. Women weren’t just looking for pleasure; they were searching for permission.

That realization cracked me open. I traveled the world, seeking answers in tantra, spirituality, and alternative medicine. But unlike many practitioners of Tantra in the West, my initiation was not through sexual massage or weekend workshops. My Tantra journey was rooted in the auspicious teachings of a 1,200-year-old lineage of Tibetan Tantric Buddhism, where sexual energy was honored as a force for healing, deep spiritual connection, and transformation. I immersed myself in lineage-based teachings for harnessing sexual energy, studied under master teachers, and explored the depths of how sexuality influences the subconscious mind.

Shifting from pleasure scarcity to pleasure consciousness was a process of both personal and universal reconciliation. I intimately understood the duality of linking pleasure to pain—of using sex to cope rather than to connect. The turning point wasn’t just learning about Tantra, Buddhism, or somatic healing; it was in embodying them. Instead of chasing endless gratification, I rewired my relationship with intimacy, shifting from performance to presence.

Today, I stand as a Certified Sexologist, Authentic Tantra® Practitioner, and Transformational Therapist (RTT®), guiding ambitious, high-performing women and couples through a process of unlearning, reclamation, and embodied healing. I also channel my knowledge of herbalism into Ava’s Aphrodisia, a collection of handcrafted, organic sexual wellness tinctures designed to nourish the body and awaken the senses

Through my signature Diamond Ascension Method, I help clients break free from sexual shame, reconnect to their primal power, and rewrite their intimacy blueprint. Because adopting sexuality as a mechanism for healing doesn’t just change your sex life—it transforms every facet of your existence.

I fiercely advocate for men, women, and couples to have extraordinary sexual experiences because I know what it’s like to live in the gap between repression and liberation. And I know, without a doubt, that not addressing your relationship to sex is the #1 reason why so many feel disconnected, confused, and misunderstood.

This isn’t about adding another “should” to your life, it’s about unlearning the conditioning that has kept you from the intimacy, power, and pleasure that are already yours. Because when you shift your relationship to sex, you don’t just liberate yourself; you elevate your consciousness, deepen your connections, and contribute to a world where intimacy is a source of healing, not harm.