Welcome, I’m Ava - it’s so good to meet you.
My work didn’t begin in a clinical office or a classroom; it began in my body. In my early twenties, intimacy would sometimes unlock something psychedelic inside me. These spontaneous currents of bliss - what I now know were expanded states of pleasure - terrified me at first. No one had ever told me this was possible. But somewhere deep inside, I knew it meant more.
That knowing set me on a path that was anything but conventional. By day, I was teaching yoga, helping students find presence in their bodies. By night, I was an erotic dancer, moving through dimly lit rooms where desire spoke louder than words. That duality cracked me open. In the studio, I saw the quiet longing for peace and connection; on the stage, I saw how deeply people ached to be seen, validated, and loved. Desire, I realized, was never just about sex - it was about belonging, about worth, about coming home to the body.
The contrast of those two worlds taught me what no textbook ever could. It showed me how we fragment ourselves; how we compartmentalize pleasure, power, and spirituality when, in truth, they are meant to coexist. That realization became the foundation of everything I teach today.
My search for answers took me around the world. Unlike many Western approaches to Tantra, my initiation wasn’t through a weekend workshop; it was through the 1,200-year-old lineage of Tibetan Tantric Buddhism, where sexual energy is revered as a force for healing, awakening, and profound spiritual connection. I spent years immersed in lineage-based teachings, studying, and exploring how sexual energy rewires not just our intimacy but our entire existence.
Along the way, I trained in modern somatic and therapeutic modalities, earning certifications as a Licensed Board Certified Sexologist, Tibetan Five Elements® Practitioner, and Transformational Therapist (RTT®). I deepened my knowledge of the nervous system through over 1,000 hours of yoga and meditation instruction. And I wove my passion for herbal medicine into Ava’s Aphrodisia, my line of handcrafted, organic tinctures and lubes for sexual wellness, hormone balance, and libido.
But more important than the certifications or the studies, what I embody - and what I teach - is the truth that sexuality is not a luxury; it’s a birthright. It’s not about adding another “should” to your list; it’s about unlearning the shame and conditioning that have kept you from the intimacy, pleasure, and power that are already yours.
Today, my work is an invitation to come home to yourself; to stop performing and start feeling; to explore the edges of your desire; and to reclaim the parts of you that have been buried beneath years of guilt, confusion, or silence. Through my signature programs, this transformation becomes tangible:
La Vida Orgásmica, my 8-week immersive journey for women, re-educates your body and your nervous system, guiding you to understand your arousal, deepen your self-pleasure practice, and embody an orgasmic way of living that permeates every area of your life.
The PULSE Community, a membership for women craving consistent practice and support, offers live guided sessions twice a month; where we explore everything from orgasmic anatomy to energetic mastery; alongside a library of tools to help you integrate pleasure into your daily life.
And for those beginning this journey, the Intimacy Reading is the perfect entry point; a personalized session that uncovers your intimacy blueprint and gives you a clear map for your next steps.
I fiercely advocate for a world where sexuality is no longer a source of shame or confusion but a portal to healing, connection, and deep self-acceptance. Because when you shift your relationship to sex, you don’t just change your intimacy; you transform every facet of your life.
This work isn’t about quick fixes or surface-level advice. It’s about liberation. About claiming your right to be fully expressed, fully felt, and fully alive.
And if you’re ready, I’d love to show you how extraordinary your pleasure - and your life - can truly be.
With love & anticipation,
Ava xx